The struggle is real.. Nursery vs Babysitter

Had a really bad night last night - Umi was moody & cried herself to sleep upon getting the WA messages from Tok Umi (1st babysitter): basically she is sorry but she can no longer babysit Dhiya since her daughter is having online classes daily at 4pm and she had to care for the 1 yo grandson.

Umi didn't talk to Ayah about it since Umi will cry more!

So, umi woke up early in the night and prayed to Allah - to make it easier & the best 'pengasuh' for Dhiya..  since yesterday afternoon (upon getting back) Umi sort of already had a bad feeling (just a thought really) and kept pray to Allah for keeping Dhiya safe from harm. Umi came across Tok Umi's husband when Umi sent Dhiya there in the morning. He didn't look softspoken - Umi kinda scared - call me paranoid! - but he looked annoyed.

All is well... alhamdulillah syukur Ya Allah


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